Originally Posted by
Brian96
Ah, but the problem is that people often believe that something is what it isn't. So the phrase, "It is what it is," is a useful way to ground oneself to accepting the reality of something without adding a whole bunch of meaning to it that is not warranted.
So, when one says, "A losing record is a losing record," what one is taking a step back from is a thought such as, "A losing record is an indication that I am, at the core (corps?) of my being, a loser." No, my worth as a person is based on much more than my record of wins and losses. Now, I may in fact be a loser, but my win/loss record, in and of itself, is not sufficient to assess my worth as a person.