I have a question that I'd like to pose. I don't think it's really political, but it could take that turn I guess, so I'm going to post it here. Anyway, here it goes:
What are your opinions on what makes some people more driven than others so that they are able to achieve success however they measure it? By success, I don't mean only millionaires, CEOs, small business owners. For example, I'm also talking about the person that knows they want to be the best high school teacher they can, and that person is able to stay focused on that goal and make the sacrifices needed to reach that goal. Or, the person who wants to be a CEO, top athlete, business owner, inventor, etc... and is able to realize what it will take to reach that goal many times in their early teen years or younger, and then unhesitatingly pursues that goal with a dogged determination that it's nearly and many times, totally, impossible to distract them from achieving success in what they pursue. And most times you see it spill over to other areas of their lives such as their hobbies, etc... so that they also excel in those areas. And then on the flip side, there are those who just seem unmotivated for whatever reason. I'll use myself as an example, and will probably draw some derisive remarks that I'm exaggerating, but I've never really been motivated to accomplish greatness. For example, before there were laser timers and we only had coaches to test us, I consistently ran a 4.4 40 and about an 11 100. I loved playing football but, didn't like the work. I didn't want to run track much to the chagrin of our track coach. I just wanted to have fun. As a result, I was an above average player that no one would want to play for them at the next level because I wasn't motivated. Now, I wasn't shy of working hard. Every job I've had, and every time I've helped others out, they would always tell my dad how hard and conscientious of a worker I was. I just couldn't see ahead at how much I would wish I had taken football more seriously and school as well, so I could have achieved much more success. So, it's not a matter of laziness. I guess for me it was just a matter of not being able to imagine the future vividly enough to make it real.
So, if any of you can understand what I'm trying to ask, what are your thoughts? What separates those who achieve the success they desire as opposed to those who don't? For me, I think it's something different than laziness. Now I will agree, that is the case with many people, but I don't think a broad stroke of the laziness brush is accurate when trying to consider why some people can't seem to find success.