The poverty that my dad grew up in would rival just about any on this board. No one handed him anything. He worked his way through high school, college, the army, and law school. He's as self-made as any man I know.
He has no hesitancy in admitting that his row would've been exponentially harder to hoe had he been black.
That doesn't take anything away from his accomplishments, it's just an acknowledgment of reality.
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I will acknowledge that minorities have a more difficult road, but to put it all on white privilege is not logical. I work with an overwhelming majority of minority coworkers and clients. Just today, I had a client ask me why minority men felt it was appropriate to wear their pants around their ankles and speak in a way that no one can understand a word they are saying. Her comment was, “No wonder we can’t get ahead in life, look at what we have to offer this world.”
That's his opinion which does not make it reality. In what part of the journey did his skin color make the difference?
Statistics are manipulated and in this case ignore multiple factors. LBJ and 1965 seems to be a non-factor to those with white guilt.
Why was black fatherless homes twice that of whites before 1965 and LBJ?
I am not ignoring any factors - I acknowledge that being born rich, white, heterosexual, Christian are also advantages bestowing privilege. But why won’t you acknowledge that being born white also makes life a bit easier in America?
I don’t feel any guilt. Why should I? Is that why you won’t acknowlege white privilege - because you avoid guilt?
If an oddsmaker who were to set the odds of you becoming a Christian versus Muslim, atheist or other at the time of your birth, what do you think would be favored and by how much?
Similarly, if they were to set the odds on how much money you would make, your life expectancy, or likelihood of being imprisoned at some point, do you think race would be a useful indicator on setting the line?
nope. They did not have it that good. One of my parents was born in a rented room (rented daily) in Wichita falls Texas to pare ts that lived nomadically while looking for work. The other was born in a company-owned two room house in the back hills of Kentucky and had no electricity, plumbing, education or healthcare given to them. My mother left home at 14 to work in a boarding school in an attempt to get an education, then spent two wars in the Navy.
You have no concept of what it took to give me my advantages, and it sure wasn't being white. All the roads they took are easier today than before...for all races.
Hey, that is great. I know lots of white people with similar stories, especially when we reach back to grandparent generations.
Still, black families in 1920s or so didn’t have the same upward mobility as white families. Buying a home in a safe neighborhood, taking out a loan, getting your kids into an average school, not being discriminated against are all things that would have been much harder as a black American at the time of your parents and grandparents.