Originally Posted by
Champ967
It's really not. If you can say a thing more than one way, and one of those ways serves to diminish someone else's humanity, then say it a different way.
It's a simple gesture of courtesy, and it takes negligible effort on your part. Like flushing. (You flush, right?)
For the same effort it takes you to flush, you can say "the Southeastern US". Or "Native American". Or "developmentally disabled". Or "same sex couple".
The willingness to extend a simple courtesy to others shows your strength of character, not weakness.