I am talking about REC from ages 4-6 and Academy from 7-9 and Select from 9-10 and up. I am talking about Solar, The Dallas Texans, ect....
If you are teaching these things and you are placing your emphasis on player development rather than winning games than you should be congratulated because you are the exception rather than the rule.
I had a former ODP coach chastise my son for performing a brilliant stepover that completely froze the defender like he was standing in concrete, and in almost the same motion shoot a laser into the upper right corner of the net. He was told and I quote, "this game is close, now is not the time for "tricks"" I have seen a coach from one of the top-3 clubs in North Texas yank a kid off the field for taking on two defenders when there was an open pass (this was a 7 year old!!!) My son is 8 and I see this stuff all the time.
I saw a show where Arsenne Wenger (Arsenal) was talking about how in France they could care less about teaching 7-10 year olds tactics. It is ONLY about technical skills to them. He said that if a player isn't almost technically perfect by the time they are 14 he has no use for them. He said that at young ages youth should never be playing in tournaments and should mostly be playing small sided games. Fit a regular game in every once in a while. I think this is where we as a nation are failing are youth teams. We are too busy chasing trophies at the youth level. (I obviously don't mean you DallasDog but our youth system as a whole)
I hope you read all 5 parts of that link I posted. I would be very interested to hear your thoughts on it.