You're describing my own personality.

As for LA Tech AD's, neither Derek Dooley or Bruce Van De Velde ever "
made me feel like a million bucks". T-Mac doesn't either, but he is certainly nice enough. But I don't really care. I don't need that from "my" AD, nor do I seek it. As long as he gets the job done, I'll find my own friends without any help from my AD.
Again.....these people are
HIRED GUNS. They are NOT your friends. You are terribly mistaken if you think otherwise. And if some of you don't understand that yet, you may need to join Friends.com to find others to socialize with.